Coaching FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)
Personal coaching is a fairly new thing for most people. Some questions come up again and again, so I’ve tried to answer the most frequent questions I receive below.
- How is coaching different from consulting?
- How is coaching different from a best friend?
- How is coaching different from therapy?
- How is personal coaching different from sports coaching?
- What is the basic philosophy of coaching?
- Who hires a coach and why?
- What happens when you hire a coach?
- Does a coach work on personal goals or business/professional goals?
- Where does a coach focus with an average client?
- Why is coaching becoming so popular?
- Please, give me some context about coaching…
- What about people who are already doing great in their lives. Why would they need a coach?
- Can a dependency be created between coach and client?
- Can coaching hurt someone?
- Can I hire a coach just for a short-term, special project?
- How long must I commit if I start working with a coach?
- How does the process work and how much does it cost?
- I’m ready to get started — how do I contact you?
What is coaching?
Coaching is a new profession.
Coaches:
- Help people set better goals and then reach those goals.
- Ask their clients to do more than they would have done on their own.
- Focus their clients better to more quickly produce results.
- Provide the tools, support and structure to accomplish more.
My clients get focused and produce faster because they have a coach.
How is coaching different from consulting?
Coaching is a form of consulting. But the coach stays with the client to help implement the new skills, changes and goals to make sure they really happen.
How is coaching different from a best friend?
A best friend is wonderful to have. But is your best friend a professional who you will trust to advise you on the most important aspects of your life and/or business? Have a best friend and a coach.
How is coaching different from therapy?
Coaching is not therapy. I don’t work on "issues" or get into the past or deal much with understanding human behavior. I leave that up to the client to know and figure out while we help them move forward and set personal and professional goals that will give them the life they really want.
Another way to view it is that therapy helps an individual to move from dysfunctional to functional, from "-10" to "0". Coaching is focused on moving from "functional" to "outstanding", from "0" to "+10".
I’m not trained nor licensed to help deal with psychological problems — clients are urged to seek help from a competent professional for any medical or psychological problem.
How is personal coaching different from sports coaching?
Personal coaching includes several principles from sports coaching, like teamwork, going for the goal, being your best. But unlike sports coaching, most professional coaching is not competition or win/lose based. We strengthen the client’s skills vs help them beat the other team. It’s win/win.
What is the basic philosophy of coaching?
Simply put, that we humans are great, that we’re all discovering what we really want and that we get can get what we want faster and easier by having a coach who’s been there and who can help us.
Who hires a coach and why?
People hire a coach because:
- They want more.
- The want to grow.
- They want it easier.
It’s as simple as that. Coaches help a client get all three. Quickly.
What happens when you hire a coach?
Many things, but the most important are:
- You take yourself more seriously.
- You take more effective and focused actions immediately.
- You stop putting up with what is dragging you down.
- You create momentum so it’s easier to get results.
- You set better goals that you might not have without the coach
Does a coach work on personal goals or business/professional goals?
Both, actually. And, with the line between personal and business life blurring in the new millenium, the coach is the only professional trained to work with all aspects of you.
Where does a coach focus with an average client?
I focus where the client needs me most — and I tend to weave in the following discussions:
- Getting the client’s Personal Foundation strengthened.
- Helping the client beef up their Reserve.
- Helping the client set goals based on their Personal Values.
By including these with what the client consciously identifies, I help the client have fewer problems and focus on what’s going to make them the most successful. I’ve found that clients really enjoy the approach.
Why is coaching becoming so popular?
Coaching is becoming popular for several reasons:
- Many people are tired of doing what they "should" do and are ready to do something special and meaningful for the rest of their lives. Problem is, many can’t see it, or if they can, they can’t see a way to reorient their life around it. A coach can help them do both.
- People are realizing how simple it can be to accomplish something that several years ago might have felt out of reach or like a pipedream. A coach is not a miracle worker (well, they are, sometimes) but a coach does have a large tool kit to help the Big Idea become a Reality. Fortunately, people now have time and resources to invest in themselves in this kind of growth.
- Spirituality. If you’ve tracked the phenomenal success of James Redfield’s Celestine Prophecy on the NY Times best-seller list during 1994, you get a sense of just how many people are willing to look at, and consider, the notion of spirituality. Wow. Many coaches are spiritually based — even the ones who coach IBM and AT&T. America is getting spiritual quickly. (Our working definition of spirituality? How connected you are with yourself and others.") The coach helps the clients to tune in better to themselves and others.
Please, give me some context about coaching…
A personal coach does just what an athletic coach or music teacher does, only in a more complete and bigger way. A coach challenges you and takes the time to find out what winning in life means to you. A coach is your partner in living the life you know you can accomplish, personally and professionally. A coach is someone to hold you accountable for your life, to make sure you really do live up to your potential.
No matter where you are in life, there is always a desire for more. More success, more money, closer relationships, a deeper feeling of meaning in life, etc. It is the nature of people to want to attain more, become more, be more, and we all struggle with how to get what we’re looking for.
Most people believe that "hard work and doing it on your own" are the keys to finding the life, success, money, or happiness that they seek. They believe that a price must be paid to attain what they want, and often that price is poor health, not having enough time to enjoy life, strained family relationships or lessened productivity. The saddest part is that, even though this effort may result in more of something, it is often not the something you had in mind, and you are back where you started, or worse, further from your real intentions.
Athletes and performers know about this trap. They know they need someone else, a trained someone else to help them set goals, discover real needs, and work effectively toward ultimate goals of excellence. So, they are willing to hire a coach or a teacher. No serious athlete or musician would expect to progress very far without one.
What about people who are already doing great in their lives. Why would they need a coach?
They might not need a coach. But it is helpful to find out: Are they doing what they most enjoy? Are they tolerating anything? Is life easy? Are they going to be financially independent within the next 15 years? Do they have what they most want? We’ve discovered that, often, people need to expect more out of their lives. A coach can help in this process.
Can a dependency be created between coach and client?
Not really. The client may "need" the coach in order to maximize an opportunity or accelerate their growth, yet not be "dependent" on the coach. Anyone who’s up to something "needs" structure, advice, support and a place to brag, so in that sense, the coach is necessary. But an emotional, psychological dependency is not created. The coach works with people who are just fine and strong enough on their own. Remember, we’re not resolving issues here. The coach is helping the client to create a better future: More success, more money, and a higher quality of life.
Can coaching hurt someone?
No. How? We aren’t doing psychological work. We’re not trying to control the client’s thinking. We’re not cattle prods; we’re partners.
Can I hire a coach just for a short-term, special project?
Yes. I’m happy to work with a client to help them accomplish specific projects or goals. Often, however, that tends to lead to a longer-term replashion because there are even more interesting things to accomplish.
How long must I commit if I start working with a coach?
I typically ask for a three to six month commitment but of course we can stop immediately if coaching is not working for you right now.
How does this work? What does it cost?
For details on how the process works, and what the costs are, please click here to read How Coaching Works - The Nuts & Bolts
I’m ready to get started — how do I contact you?
To contact me, click here to send me a message. Please include your contact information and some brief information on areas you’d particularly like to address, and I’ll be back in touch ASAP to work with you to find the success you deserve.
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